Those Who Have Lost Loved Ones

The following is a post from a member of the Alliance of Hope online support group; a worldwide group of suicide loss survivors. This message is one of the many messages received every day. The number of suicide victims has grown to approximately 48,000 lives per year in the US. There are over 20,000 registered loss survivors who are members of the Alliance of Hope. Far more loss survivors are struggling, and do not reach out to any type of support group due to the stigma that is attached to suicide. Please read carefully, as her voice speaks loudly for so many. We must push for people to listen and push for action.

From a member of the Alliance of Hope support group:

Emphasis should be placed on root causes of suicide. Monies should be going towards upgrading our mental health resources and just as we are required to have a primary care physician we should also be required to have a primary mental heath physician. If our medical doctors, insurance providers and government entities are not equipped to consider our mental health as an equal part of our overall health as physical health, then we will always be in the dark and asking why. Suicide enters all walks of life…..ALL…..not just the homeless, the poor, the traumatized, the addicted. To me those conditions are ALSO symptoms of an unhealthy or untreated or mistreated mental health history not the root causes. My husband completed suicide after a failed attempt. He found a way. I don’t believe he was an anomaly, I believe he had unresolved mental health issues, root causes that he and everyone around him from doctors, family, friends, to social entities and governmental entities, who were absolutely not equipped to recognize and treat his illness. That is why suicide is complex, that is why suicide happens, that is why we are all left thinking somehow it could have been prevented. Until this world wakes up to the realization that focusing and funding healthy mental health practices and research for all peoples, then I am afraid that suicide will continue on its dangerous path of increasing in death status. I am afraid but I also have hope.

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